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Toltec: women and men of knowledge, a toltec is an artist of Love.
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Eta artistak bagara,
Orduan maitasunez sor dezakegu gure bizitza.
ETA GURE AMETSA BIHURTZEN DA
ARTELAN BAT.
THE WOUNDED MIND
You have the power to create. Your power is so strong that whatever you believe comes true. All of our drama and suffering is by practice. To become masters of love, we have to practice love.
What we call education is nothing but domestication of the human being. People's opinions are not important. They are not important because we just want to play and we live in the present. A simply relationship between a man and a woman.
THE LOSS OF INNOCENCE
When we feel pain it is because there is something wrong with the body that we have to look at and fix.
"Oh, I am shy". Shyness is the fear of expressing yourself.
Humans use fear to domesticate humans, and our fear increases with each experience of injustice.
In our mind we create that part of us that is always judging: The Belief System, Parasit. The Parasit is all those beliefs that make you suffer.
If you just open your eyes and see what is around you, it's exactly what you need to clean your poison, to heal your wounds, to accept yourself, and to get out of hell.
THE MAN WHO DIDN'T BELIEVE IN LOVE
Usually in every relationship there is one who loves the most and the other who doesn't love.
Me and Jose loved to be together, because when we were together we had a lot of fun. When we were not together, we missed each other. We miss each other...
The mistake was on the man's part in thinking he could give the woman his happiness. Happiness never comes from outside of us.
THE TRACK OF LOVE, THE TRACK OF FEAR
Your whole life is nothing but a dream.
We can have thousands of relationships at the same time, but every relationship is between two persons and no more than two.
Your dreams are made by emotions. There are two main sources of those emotions: one is fear and the other is love.
Love has no obligations. Fear is full of obligations.
Love has no expectations. Fear is full of expectations.
Love is based on respect. Fear doesn't respect anything.
Love is ruthless; it doesn't feel sorry for anyone but it does have compassion.
Love is completely responsible. Fear avoids responsibility, but this doesn't mean that it's not responsible.
Love is always kind. Fear is always unkind.
If you are in the track of love, you have no obligations, no expectations. You don't feel sorry for yourself or for your partner. Everything is going well for you, and that is why that smile is always on your face.
Love is generous. Fear is selfish.
Love is unconditional. Fear is full of conditions.
In the track of love, there is justice.
In every relationship there are two halves of that relationship. One half is you, and the other half is your son, your daughter, your father, your mother, your friends, your partner.
We can become a playmate and a team player. Even if you both play tennis differently, you have the the same goal: to have fun together, to play together, to be playmates. In a relationship, as in a game, it's not about winning or losing. You are playing because you want to have fun.
Generosity, freedom, and love will create the most beautiful relationship: an ongoing romance.
No one else can make you happy, and that happiness is the result of love coming out of you, this becomes the greatest mastery of the Toltecs, the Mastery of Love.
Love is about action.
THE PERFECT RELATIONSHIP
You cannot change other people. You love them the way they are or you don't. You accept them the way they are or you don't. You need to be completely honest with yourself.
A dog doesn't care what you do; it just loves you. It doesn't have any expectations.
What is the right woman, the right man? Someone who wants to go in the same direction as you do, someone who is compatible with your views and your values. The one who love you, LOVES YOU JUST THE WAY YOU ARE.
You know the kind of man or woman that you want? The one who makes your heart sing, the one who is aligned with the way you are, the one who loves you just as you are.
If you choose to keep going, you can still have a new beginning by accepting and loving your partner just as she is. But first you will need to take a step back. You have to accept yourself and love yourself just the way you are. The next step is to accept your partner.
Explore the possibilities. Be yourself. Find a person who matches with you. Take the risk, but be honest.
That is why the key in the lock has to be a match, because if one of you has a bad moment or an emotional crisis, your agreement is to allow each other to be what you are. Relationship is an art.
If you are happy, your happiness can bring her happiness back. In the same way, if you are down and she is happy, her happiness is your support.
KEEP BEING HAPPY, KEEP PLAYING, AND I WILL JOIN YOU WHEN I CAN ENJOY YOUR HAPPINESS. RIGHT NOW, I NEED TO BE ALONE.
Communication through respect and love is the whole key to keeping the love alive and never getting bored in your relationship.
Heal your half, and you are going to be happy. If you can heal that part of you, then you are going to be ready for a relationship without fear.
Love is what makes you happy.
Once you decide to be a couple, you are there to serve the one you love.
In every kiss, in every touch, you feel you are each there to please the one you love, without expecting anything back, More than sex, it's about being together.
THE MAGICAL KITCHEN
Your heart is like that magical kitchen. If you open your heart, you already have all the love you need.
"What am I going to do if he leaves me?". What we call love, someone who needs me, someone who cares about me, isn't love; it is selfishness. We search for love outside ourselves when love is all around us. Love is everywhere. If one person doesn't love you, someone else will love you.
The most wonderful relationship you can have: the relationship with yourself, SELF-LOVE. When love is coming out of you, you are not searching for love because you are afraid to be alone.
Your heart is a magical kitchen. OPEN YOUR HEART. Open your magical kitchen, and refuse to walk around the world begging for love. In your heart is all the love you need.
What makes you happy is love coming out of you: your generosity will open all the doors.
THE DREAM MASTER
Every relationship in your life can be healed, every relationship can be wonderful, but it's always going to begin with you.
You are responsible for the consequences of whatever you do, think, say, and feel.
Your life is the manifestation of your personal dream. If you can transform the program of your personal dream, you can become a dream master.
Mastery of Transformation: to break free of the old Dream and to create a new dream where everything is possible.The Dreamers know that the dream is an illusion, and they play in that world of illusion, knowing it's an illusion. You have to stalk your own reactions; you have to work with yourself every moment.
You can say: LOOK AT THAT PERSON WHO IS SUFFERING SO MUCH, but you don't take personally.
When we recover free will, in any moment we can choose to remember who we are: AWARENESS. The real mission you have in life is to make yourself happy.
Once we are able to accept ourselves just the way we are, everything can start changing from that point forward. It's okay now to be with yourself, and you really enjoy it.
SEX: THE BIGGEST DEMON IN HELL
We are not good or bad or right or wrong: we are just the way we are.Your body has needs that you cannot avoid. When the need is in the mind, you cannot satisfy the need.
You can FEEL that life: the whole universe is a living being that is moved by that force, and that is what you are. YOU ARE LIFE.
THE DIVINE HUNTRESS
In Greek mythology Artemis was the supreme huntress and fulfilled her needs so easily and lived in perfect harmony with the forest. The story of Artemis tells that all of us are hunters, and all of us are prey. What is it that we hunt? we hunt to fulfill our needs. We are hunting for love, for justice and happiness.
Humans who hunt each other for love will never be satisfied; they will never find the love they need in other humans.
The story of Prometheus,who is chained to a rock: to hunt inside yourself, you start by hunting every reaction you have. You are going to change on routine at a time.
Don't take it personally, it will be so easy for you to have a wonderful relationship with you partner. TAKE IT EASY!
SEEING WITH EYES OF LOVE
If you look at your body, you will find billions of living beings who depend on you. I AM SORRY; NOW I WILL TAKE CARE OF YOU AGAIN. The relationship between you and your body, between you and all those living cells that depend on you. Your body is perfect the way it is. If you accept your own body, you can accept almost everyone, almost everything. The relationship you have with yourself is reflected in your relationship with others. You have to love your body and allow your body to be free to just be, to be free to give, free to receive, without being shy, because SHY is nothing but fear. EVERYTHING THAT EXISTS IS BEAUTIFUL. You are beautiful no matter what your mind tells you. Aging is something beautiful. You are what you believe you are. LOVE COMES FROM INSIDE.
You can begin by doing a PUJA (RITUAL in India) for your body every day: every day you can offer a devotional love to your own body. SELF-LOVE. When you do a PUJA with your own body, when you know how to have that devotion for your own body, and you touch your lover's body, you touch it with the same devotion, the same love, the same honor, the same gratitude. FULL OF LOVE.
You don't even need to touch, just looking into each other's eyes is enough to fulfill the needs of the mind and the needs of the soul. GOD IS EVERYWHERE. LIFE IS EVERYWHERE. You perceive the outside Dream according to your eyes. Begin with the complete acceptance of your body, but first you are going to learn how to heal your emotional body.
HEALING THE EMOTIONAL BODY
We are going to use the truth as a scalpel to open the wounds. When you are truthful with yourself, you start to see everything as it is.
Almost everything in this world of illusion is a lie. That's why I ask apprentices to follow 3 rules for seeing what is true:
1. Don't believe me.
2. Don't believe yourself. WHEN YOU HEAR YOUR HEART GUIDING YOU TO YOUR HAPPINESS, THEN MAKE A CHOICE AND STICK TO IT.
3. Don't believe anyone else. COMMON SENSE WILL GUIDE YOU TO YOUR OWN HAPPINESS, YOUR OWN CREATION.
BURU ZAURITUA
Sortzeko ahalmena duzu. Zure boterea hain da indartsua, non sinesten duzun guztia egia bihurtzen den. Gure drama eta sufrimendu guztia praktikagatik da. Maitasunaren jabe izateko, maitasuna praktikatu behar dugu.
Hezkuntza deitzen duguna gizakiaren etxekotzea besterik ez da. Jendearen iritziak ez dira garrantzitsuak. Ez dira inportanteak, jolastu nahi dugulako eta orainaldian bizi garelako. Gizon baten eta emakume baten arteko harremana.
ERRUGABETASUNA GALTZEA
Mina sentitzen dugunean gorputzean zerbait txarra dagoelako da, begiratu eta konpondu behar duguna.
"Lotsatia naiz". Herabetasuna adierazteko beldurra da.
Gizakiok beldurra erabiltzen dugu gizakiak etxekotzeko, eta gure beldurra areagotu egiten da injustiziaren esperientzia bakoitzarekin.
Gure gogamenean sortzen dugu beti epaitzen ari den zati hori: Sinesmen Sistema, Parasit. Parasitoa sufriarazten dizuten sineskizun horiek guztiak dira.
Begiak ireki eta inguruan zer duzun ikusten baduzu, pozoia garbitu behar duzu, zauriak sendatu, zeure burua onartu eta infernutik irten.
MAITASUNEAN SINESTEN EZ ZUEN GIZONA
Normalean harreman guztietan dago bat gehien maite duena eta bestea maite ez duena.
Joseri eta bioi asko gustatzen zitzaigun elkarrekin egotea. Elkarrekin ez geundenean, elkar faltan botatzen genuen. Faltan botatzen dugu elkar...
Gizonaren akatsa izan zen emakumeari bere zoriona eman ziezaiokeela pentsatzea. Zoriona ez da inoiz kanpotik etortzen.
MAITASUNAREN ARRASTOA, BELDURRAREN ARRASTOA
Zure bizitza osoa amets bat besterik ez da.
Milaka harreman izan ditzakegu aldi berean, baina harreman bakoitza bi pertsonaren artekoa da eta ez birena baino gehiagokoa.
Zure ametsak emozioek egiten dituzte. Bi dira emozio horien iturri nagusiak: bata beldurra da eta bestea maitasuna.
Maitasunak ez du obligaziorik. Beldurra betebeharrez beteta dago.
Maitasunak ez du itxaropenik. Beldurra esperantzaz beteta dago.
Maitasuna errespetuan oinarritzen da. Beldurrak ez du ezer errespetatzen.
Maitasuna gupidagabea da; ez du inorenganako errukirik, baina bai errukia.
Maitasuna erabat arduratsua da. Beldurrak erantzukizuna saihesten du, baina horrek ez du esan nahi erantzulea ez denik.
Maitasuna beti da atsegina. Beldurra beti da desatsegina.
Maitasunaren arrastoan bazaude, ez duzu betebeharrik, ez itxaropenik. Ez zara ez zure buruaz ez zure kideaz errukitzen. Dena ondo doa zuretzat, eta horregatik irribarre hori aurpegian duzu beti.
Maitasuna eskuzabala da. Beldurra berekoia da.
Maitasuna baldintzarik gabea da. Beldurra baldintzaz beteta dago.
Maite zaitut, maitea, arrazoirik gabe.
Maitasunaren arrastoan justizia dago.
Harreman bakoitzean harreman horren bi erdi daude. Erdia zu zara, eta beste erdia zure semea, alaba, aita, ama, lagunak, bikotekidea.
Jolaskide eta taldeko jokalari izan gaitezke. Biok tenisean desberdin jokatzen baduzue ere, helburu bera duzue: elkarrekin ondo pasatzea, elkarrekin jokatzea, jolaskide izatea. Harreman batean, jolas batean bezala, kontua ez da irabaztea edo galtzea. Dibertitu nahi duzulako jokatzen duzu.
Eskuzabaltasunak, askatasunak eta maitasunak harreman ederrena sortuko dute: etengabeko erromantzea.
Beste inork ezin zaitu zoriontsu egin, eta zoriontasun hori zugandik sortzen den maitasunaren emaitza da, hori da tolteken nagusigorik handiena, maitasunaren maisutasuna.
Maitasuna ekintza da.
HARREMAN PERFEKTUA
Ezin dituzu beste pertsona batzuk aldatu. Diren bezala maite dituzu edo ez. Diren bezala onartzen dituzu edo ez. Zintzoa izan behar duzu zeure buruarekin.
Txakur bati ez zaio axola zer egiten duzun; maite zaitu. Ez du itxaropenik.
Zein da emakume egokia, gizon egokia? Zure norabide berean joan nahi duen norbait, zure iritziekin eta balioekin bateragarria den norbait. Maite zaituenak zaren bezala maite zaitu.
Badakizu zer gizon edo emakume nahi duzun? Bihotza kantarazten dizuna, zauden moduarekin lerrokatua dagoena, zaren bezala maite zaituena.
♪ Jarraitu nahi baduzu ♪
Ez sinetsi, ez sinetsi eta ez sinetsi beste inori.
Zauriak ireki ondoren, pozoi guztiaren zauriak garbituko ditugu. BARKAMENA Benetako arazoa harrotasuna da. Har ezak hire harrotasuna zakarrontzira bota eta gero:
1. Egin zerrenda bat barkamena eskatu behar duzuela uste duzuenoi.
2. Egin zerrenda bat min egin dizuten pertsona guztiekin, barkatu beharreko guztiekin.
Inork egin dizunak ez du zerikusirik zurekin.
Zure ametseko zauri horiek guztiak barkatu behar dizkiozu zeure buruari.
Karma zaharra apurtzea erraza da: sinesmen hori utzi eta ez duzu sinetsi nahi.
Zauriak garbitu ondoren, sendagai indartsu bat erabiliko dugu sendatzeko prozesua azkartzeko: maitasuna da, baldintzarik gabeko maitasuna.
Milioika modu daude zure zoriona adierazteko, baina modu bakarra dago benetan zoriontsu izateko, eta hori maitatzea da. Eskubidea duzu maitatzeko, irribarre egiteko, zoriontsu izateko, zure maitasuna partekatzeko, eta jasotzeko beldurrik ez izateko.
Sendatu beharreko hiru puntu sinple: egia, barkamena, norberaren maitasuna.
Nirvana, zerua lurrean, lur prometatua: denok maitasunean bizi gaitezkeen lekua da, gure arreta maitasunean jartzen dugulako. Maitatzea aukeratzen dugu. Baina orain aukera dezakezu zein ametsetan bizi nahi duzun.
JAINKOA ZURE BAITAN
Horregatik zaude hemen: jolasteko eta ondo pasatzeko. Zoriontsu izateko eskubidearekin jaio gara, bizitzaz gozatzeko eskubidearekin.
Zerua edo infernua hemen dago.
Existitzen den guztia perfektua da. Perfektua zara zaren bezala.
Jakintsu bihurtzen zarenean, zure bizitza zure bihotzak kontrolatzen du.
Zenbat eta gehiago eutsi, orduan eta gehiago sufritzen duzu. Erraza da.
Esnatzean: begiak ireki eta zauri horiek ez dituzunean eszeptiko bihurtzen zara. Oraindik ametsetan ari zara, ezin duzulako amets egitea saihestu, amets egitea gogoaren funtzioa delako, baina desberdintasuna da badakizula amets bat dela. GOZATU AMETSAZ. Esnatzea milaka pertsona dauden festa batean egotea bezala da, eta denak mozkortuta daude, zu izan ezik. Esnatzean jabetzen zara bizitza zarela.
Brahma zure barruan dago, eta Mayak eragozten dizu zer zaren gogoratzea. Zure Jainkotasuna aldarrikatzeaz eta zure barnean Jainkoa aurkitzeaz hitz egiten dute. Jainkoa etorri berria da esatera, jakinaren gainean egotera, hautu bat egitera, zure beldur guztien bidez lan egiteko eta aldatzeko kemena izatera, eta, beraz, jada ez zara maitasunaren beldur. Orain zarena egiteko ahalmena duzu. Gorputza hil egingo da, burua ere desegin egingo da, baina ez zu.
Zure maitasuna da zoriontsu egingo zaituena. Beti libre zara maitatzeko. Zure aukera harreman batean egotea bada, eta zure bikotea berdin jokatzen ari bada, hau oparia!
Hain indartsua eta indartsua izan zaitezke zure buruarekiko maitasunarekin zure amets pertsonala bihurtzen duzula beldurretik maitasunera, sufrimendutik zorionera.
BIZITZA AMETSA BESTERIK EZ DA, ETA ZURE BIZITZA MAITASUNEZ SORTZEN BADUZU, ZURE AMETSA ARTEAREN MAISULAN BIHURTZEN DA.
OTOITZAK
Hartu une bat begiak ixteko, bihotza zabaltzeko eta bihotzetik datorkizun maitasun guztia sentitzeko.
Arnasa.
Senti ezazu bizirik egotearen atsegina, maitasunarena.
Don't believe me, don't believe yourself and don't believe anyone else.
Once we open the wounds, we are going to clean the wounds of all the poison. FORGIVENESS. The real problem is pride. Take your pride an put it in the trash and then:
1. Make a list of everyone you believe you need to ask for forgiveness.
2. make a list of all the people who hurt you, all the people you need to forgive.
Whatever anyone did to you had nothing to do with you.
You find that you must forgive yourself for all those wounds in your own dream.
To break old karma is simple: you just stop that belief by refusing to believe it.
Once we have cleaned the wounds, we are going to use a powerful medicine to accelerate the process of healing: It's love, unconditional love.
There are millions of ways to express your happiness, but there is only one way to really be happy, and that's to love. You have the right to love, lo smile, to be happy, to share your love, and to not be afraid to receive it also.
Three simple points to heal: TRUTH, FORGIVENESS, SELF-LOVE.
Nirvana, heaven on earth, promised land: it's a place where all of us can live in love because we put our attention on love. We choose to love. But now you can choose which dream you want to live in.
GOD WITHIN YOU
That is the reason you are here: TO PLAY AND HAVE FUN. We are born with the right to be happy, with the right to enjoy life.
Heaven or hell is here and now.
You know, everything that exists is perfect. You are perfect just the way you are.
When you become wise, your life is controlled by your heart.
The more you resist, the more you suffer. It is simple.
Awakening: when you open your eyes and you don't have those wounds, you become a skeptic. You are still dreaming, because you cannot avoid dreaming, because dreaming is the function of the mind, but the difference is that you know it's a dream. ENJOY THE DREAM. The awakening is like being at a party where there are thousands of people and everyone is drunk except you. The awakening is when you have the awareness that you are life.
Brahma is there inside you, and Maya is stopping you from remembering what you are. They talk about reclaiming your Divinity and finding God within you. God has just come to tell you, to be aware, to make a choice, to have the courage to work through all your fears and change them, so you are no longer afraid of love. YOU HAVE THE POWER TO MAKE YOURSELF WHAT YOU ARE RIGHT NOW. The body is going to die, the mind is going to dissolve also, but not you.
What will make you happy is the love coming out of you. You are always free to love. If your choice is to be in a relationship, and your partner is playing the same game, what a gift!
You can be so strong and so powerful that with your self-love you transform your personal dream from fear to love, from suffering to happiness.
LIFE IS NOTHING BUT A DREAM, AND IF YOU CREATE YOUR LIFE WITH LOVE, YOUR DREAM BECOMES A MASTERPIECE OF ART.
PRAYERS
Please take a moment to close your eyes, open your heart, and feel all the love that is coming from your heart.
Breath.
Feel the pleasure of being alive, the pleasure of feeling of love.
Gaur, Unibertsoaren Sortzaile, eskatzen dizugu gure bihotza ireki dezazula eta gure begiak ireki ditzazula zure sorkari guztiez gozatu eta zurekin betiko maiteminduta bizi gaitezen.
Egiten eta esaten dugun guztia izan dadila gure bihotzeko edertasunaren adierazpen bat, maitasunean oinarritua beti.
Gaur, sortzaile, gure esker ona eta maitasuna ematen dizkizugu bizitza eman diguzulako. Amen.
PRAYER FOR SELF-LOVE
Gaur, Unibertsoaren Sortzaile, eskatzen dizugu lagun gaitzazula garen bezala onartzen, irizpiderik gabe.
gure bihotzean dugun botere berri horrekin, geure burua maitatzeko ahalmenarekin, dugun harreman oro eralda dezagun, geure buruarekin dugun harremanetik hasita.
Izan dadila gure harreman erromantikoa harreman zoragarriena; senti dezagun poza gure bikotekidearekin partekatzen dugun bakoitzean.
Lagun iezaguzu Esker Onaren, Eskuzabaltasunaren eta Maitasunaren Maisu izaten, zure sorkari guztiez betiko goza dezagun. Hala bedi.
